Thursday, August 1, 2013

EXCLUSIVE NEWS| How My Mother Sold My Baby – 17-Year-Old Girl Speaks

Seventeen-year-old Blessing Godspower,  on Wednesday narrated how her mother sold her (Godspower) eight-month-old baby.

The mother, Onyinyechi Nwabueze, 38, was paraded by the police at the  ‘A’ Division of the Plateau State Police Command.

Policemen from the division, led by the Divisional Police Officer, Mr. Victor Dimkpa, a Chief Superintendent of Police, had rescued the baby, Chiamaka, in Awka, the Anambra State capital.

Blessing, who was staying with her mother at Rukuba Road area of Jos North, was allegedly put in the family way by her boyfriend.

After Chiamaka was delivered, Godspower’s mother, who was not comfortable with the development, allegedly decided to get rid of the baby.

According to Blessing, on July 19, her mother sent her on a phony errand in order to effect the “diabolical” act.

She said, “My mother sent me on an errand, but when I came back I asked for my baby and my mother asked, ‘which baby?’ She feigned ignorance and at that point I started crying and reported the incident to the Police.”

Police Commissioner, Mr. Chris Olakpe said, “After the mother sent her daughter away, she (Nwabueze) stopped a tricycle and took the baby to the first receiver, one Eucharia Anyaegbu. Anyaegbu transferred the baby to the second receiver, Rita Maduako, who finally sold the baby to 53-year-old unmarried woman, Grace Nnadozie.”

Nnadozie, however, told our correspondent that after she applied to an orphanage home for a child without any result for the past two years, she sought Anyaegbu’s help.

She said  she gave N500,000 to Anyaegbu for the baby. Anyaegbu gave N350, 000 to Maduako.  Maduako was to give N200,000 to the baby’s grandmother.

But Nwabueze denied that she sold the baby.  She said her daughter was very wayward, so she decided to give the baby out to somebody else who would take proper care of her.

She said, “How can I sell my granddaughter. My daughter is not capable of taking care of the baby and I decided to give her to somebody who will take proper care of her.”

Nwabueze explained that she lost her husband in 2007 and since then, she and the six children she had with him, had been finding things difficult.

Source: Punch Nigeria

EXCLUSIVE NEWS| Rapper Wale Talks About Wizkid And When He Will Finally Come To Nigeria [VIDEO]

Grammy award nominee and MMG's Wale flew into the UK briefly to promote his well received and newly released album "The Gifted" at the Atlantic records HQ. 

The star rapper talked about the album making process, and how important it was to be heavily involved in the creative process.

Wale also talks about his relationship with Wizkid, especially after making a few songs with Wizkid in 24hrs.

Watch clip after the cut;

Davido In Fresh Sex Scandal With Kenyan Socialite, Pendo During His Last Show In Kenya

A Kenyan socialite, Staciey Brianar aka Pendo has been bragging online, in interviews that she and Davido had a romp when the superstar was in Kenya last week
Though a report from a Kenyan website says Davido had denied knowing who Pendo was in a press briefing while in Kenya, in a telephone chat with another Kenyan website, Pendo says her story is so true. And that she has proof!
Excerpts from the interview below:

Nali: So what is all this wahala about Davido blocking you off of his Facebook
Pendo : If people had done even a little research, they would Davido does not even have a Facebook account. I NEVER said I was in touch with him through Facebook. I got in touch with him through a good friend of his *redacted*  and that’s where everything started. He did the intro.

Nali: So, seriously, did you f**k Davido?
Pendo: Errrrrrrrrrrm (laughs cheekily) (There is IRREFUTABLE proof that Pendo did spend the night with Nigerian superstar, if you want to see it plead with her on twitter @LoveStaicey to release it.) In the meantime, have this picture of Davido, topless, in his hotel room from his personal instagram. Maybe Pendo took it #troll

Nali: So why did you do this? Do you do this for money?
Pendo: (Laughs) No, I didn’t get money from him. I didn’t WANT money from him. I did it simply cuz I find him hot and he is pretty legit in the music industry in Africa. Yeah, I am attracted by his talent, his fame, his power, but honestly, who isn’t?
And people are talking so much because a lot of women wanted to be in my shoes, but were not. I’m not afraid to go after what I want. That’s just me. And I am unapologetic for it. I am content that I got what I wanted -which was to know him- and I guess it just naturally progressed from there…

Nali: So was this a one time thing then?
Pendo: No, I would do it again. Gladly. I don’t regret it at all.

Nali: Of course you know now I am gonna ask about the “D”. Free reign, choose your own words to describe it.
Pendo: He was perfect.

Nali: Nooooooooo, more than that. DESCRIPTION.
Pendo: (Laughing) Ok, ok. Errrrrrrrrrrm, he is much better than your “average Kenyan”. He is big. Both length and width. (Giggles) And best part is he REALLY knows what he is working with.

Nali: Haha, so you loved ALL OF HIM. (SN: Hehe, see what I did there?)
Pendo: (Giggles) Ha, you won’t let this go will you. Haha, no seriously though, he has CRAZY moves, he kept it fresh for a couple hours. I am impressed. Definitely the best…(hesitates) Ok maybe not the best I ever had, but he is up there.

Nali: So was this a one night stand or will you be seeing him again?
Pendo: Davido is not only a good lover but a gentleman. Not only did he not publicise the affair, but he left me with some personal mementos to remember him. I don’t think a one night stand does that. Plus there is still communication going on. I’m not saying we are dating, but we are definitely still talking. He did not “hit it and quit it”.
Pendo further bragged to another website:

”First of all, David doesn’t know Pendo, Pendo is for kenyans…lol!!
He knows Staicey so maybe if Pulse did their interview right, thy would have got the right info…
Anyway, he doesn’t have a Facebook account, so there is no way he would hav “blockd” me!!
I blocked the wannabe after I talked to HIM and he said “I use twitter n Insta” not even BBM coz he uses an i-phone!!

I may have been at the press conference, but as people say u gata work to achieve. So I made my way there, got to at long last meet Deekay, my long time pal from HKN n through him, I made my way to Skyluxx for the play house party where all of us stuck up in the VIP area!!
I knew I had won my jackpot so there was nothing to worry a matter of fact, he had spotted me too.

We talked in a way only the two of us could understand!
I had my fun n made my way home ready for the big day…
As I said I was not worried, so there’s was no time in me hustlin to go to the backstage as other girls did…nooo!!

I had my food ready to eat. After the event, my friend Deekay (hkn) buzzed me and asked me to turn up that he was asking for me..
I made my way to Galileo with my girlfriends. I minded my own business until he spotted me and asked his deejay to come get me.

I still had no rush to be seen hanging out wth him or anything, so I sat down n had my drink that he offered…when it was time to leave he held my hand and we left.
On reaching the car, the organiser said it wouldn’t be safe coz of the media so David paid for my cab that followed them directly to the hotel located in Hurlingham.

When I got there, he sent his deejay (Olu) to give me his key card to his room as he talked to someone…he escorted me to the room and the rest is self explanatory!!
I’m not like those girls who take pix in bed and all…but I got proof, as he left me some wen he left for his flight early morning.

Credit to Gistreel

President Goodluck Jonathan's Convoy Involved In Auto Crash

THE convoy of President Goodluck Jonathan, was on Monday, involved in an auto crash in Nasarawa leaving 14 persons injured.

Witnesses confirmed that three confessional policemen, three mobile policemen, one member of the civil defence corps, as well as one official of the state branch of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) and six civilians were seriously injured, and were currently receiving treatment at the Dalhatu Araf Specialist Hospital, Lafia.

The state Commissioner of Police, Mr Umar Shehu, who confirmed the incident on Tuesday, said thestate government had since released funds for the treatment of all the victims. He said some of thevictims have been discharged but those who have serious fracture were still at the hospital.

According to him, the accident happened when the vehicle of a prison officer ran into the convoy of thepresident and collided with one of the riders, who somersaulted and thereafter ran into the crowd.
“They are all responding to treatment at the hospital. Some have fractures on their legs.The prison officer sustained minor injury. He is still in police custody while investigation is ongoing,” he said.
Culled from Nigerian Tribune 

How To Overcome The Fear Of Sex


Intercourse, sexual touch, oral sex, no matter who you are, any form of sex can be a very scary thing.., especially if it's your first time. To overcome your fear and become more comfortable in a sexual relationship, use these techniques. Below that you’ll find instructions for easing into a comfortable sexual session.

  1. Learn how to please yourself. How can you expect anyone else to push your buttons if you’re not      even sure where they are? Set a mood that works for you (roses and candles      for some, boots and leather for others), fantasize, and touch yourself everywhere. The human body has      quite a few erogenous zones (the biggest of which is in the brain), so if      you immediately gallop toward the privates, you’ll be missing layers and      layers of what it means to be sexual.
Experiment with a variety of touches. Ah, so you’ve found something that kicks your libido into high gear. Congratulations! Now whatever you do, do not keep repeating that technique ad infinitum. Locking yourself into only one style of pleasure will make it extremely difficult for anyone else to satisfy you. Even if they manage to master your technique, the two of you will then be locked into a strict routine, which is a libido killer.
Avoid watching porn when you first learn to self-please. Though there’s nothing wrong with enjoying porn, it can make you more visually dependent (i.e. less mentally and emotionally creative) when it comes to sex, which can dampen your satisfaction in the real world. Instead, create a variety of tantalizing scenarios in your head and imagine yourself living them out; it will make you a more creative lover.

2. Don’t have sex unless you’re very turned on. Maybe you’ve given yourself an ultimatum to lose your virginity. Maybe you’ve made a weekly sex schedule with your partner. And maybe you’ll be glad of it when the time comes. But whatever you do, don’t have sex until your body is on the same page as your mind. Enjoy as much kissing, touching, foreplay, dirty talk, and other forms of stimulation as you need before having intercourse.
Lack of arousal makes sex very painful for women this includes digital (finger or touching) stimulation. When a woman is aroused, her vagina becomes wet (which lubricates, making entry easier and reducing painful friction), widened and elongated (which makes it able to accommodate a penis or other inserted item), and swollen (making sex pleasurable and encouraging orgasm).[1][2] If you’re afraid of sexual discomfort, honor your body by asking for extra time and TLC before having sex.
3. Experiment with other forms of sex first. “Sex” is a huge word that encompasses a lot of acts, and intercourse isn’t the end-all, be-all. In fact, going straight from kissing to intercourse is a wasted opportunity to have fun, add spice to your love life, and practice your technique with your partner. As you travel down the path of your sexuality, be sure to make pit stops at rubbing, humping, and any other techniques you think of along the way.
4. Don’t be afraid to take charge of the situation. Though it might seem embarrassing to be vocal about what you want, sexual assertiveness is a big turn-on for most people. (Don’t confuse this with aggressiveness – unless that’s what you’re both into.) Take the reins by telling your partner what you want – even if it’s what you want them to do to you.
5. Get to know the person you're thinking of having sexual relations with. Rushing into sex isn’t a good way to create intimacy or spice things up – especially if you feel pressured to do so. Make it clear whether you will be emotionally involved or if it is just a fling. If your feelings do change, tell your partner.
6. Find the root of your aversion reaction. If you have an unpleasant sexual history, you’ve probably developed a knee-jerk negative reaction to sex. Instead of feeling guilty or ashamed of your feelings, acknowledge and validate them so that you can work through them productively. Most importantly, don’t do it for anyone else; do it for yourself.
If sex does not feel pleasurable, spend more alone time finding your own erogenous zones. Pleasure yourself without pressure, deadlines, or stress. If even relaxed masturbation feels painful, talk to a doctor. You may have a condition such as dyspareunia.
If sex feels more like a duty than an adventure, respect your emotional needs, which are not being met. Did sex start out as something you did in the spirit of generosity that then become a dreaded obligation? Talk to your partner about trying new techniques. Show him or her what you’d like to do and have done to you. If hurt feelings are a potential problem area, package the whole thing as fun and experimentation, not frustration or revulsion. Whatever you do, don’t give up on improving the situation; having sex solely to please someone else is a surefire way to grow to hate it.
If you’ve had a traumatic sexual experience, you should focus on self-pleasure before you work up to partner sex. Reconnect with your body, which you may feel has been taken from you. Forget about anyone else’s needs or opinions until you’ve reestablished your relationship with yourself, ideally with the help of a therapist. Once you feel excited about making love again, establish a safe, slow, trusting relationship with someone before even considering having sex. You’ll probably find that being open with your partner will make them much more patient and understanding.
How to Ease into a Comfortable Sexual Session
  1. Find a comfortable setting.      Overcoming your fear takes time and requires a comfortable, relaxing      environment. Avoid distractions (television, computer, unlocked door) that      will put you in the wrong head space when you’re supposed to be enjoying      yourself.
  2. Take it slow.      With your partner in the comfortable setting of your choice, approach the      situation slowly. If your partner wants to race to the finish line, smile      (a smile goes a long way in easing tension) and say it’ll be hotter if you      both slow down.
If your partner won’t go at your pace, don’t have sex with them. Sex isn’t something you give someone, it’s an experience you share. If someone tries to pressure you sexually, take ownership of your body by getting out of there – and be glad you dodged a bullet.
  1. Start with kissing and holding hands, then move      into deeper kissing. If you feel you're      starting to get uncomfortable again, pull back a little and let your      partner know.
  2. Touch each other through your clothing. Agree not to remove your clothes, which will give you a sense of      psychological security, and then explore each other’s bodies. Within this      safety net, it’ll be much easier to allow yourself to feel turned on.
Giving massages is a great way to pleasure your partner without engaging in strictly sexual touching.
  1. Talk about what you liked and how you felt      during the touching. Letting your partner      know what you enjoy is incredibly helpful, and unless they have a      dangerously delicate ego (a huge red flag), they’ll be thankful for the      information.
You may reflect that your body and mind felt very differently during the experience. Perhaps your body loved it (maybe a pleasurable noise even escaped you) but, mentally, you weren’t at ease. Be sure to tell your partner so that they can help you overcome your anxiety about that touch while still taking into consideration your feelings.
  1. Try more intimate touching and try      experimenting. If you’re nervous, tell your partner you      want to go first so that you can touch and please them a bit before being      touched yourself. Have them touch you next. Relax, take deep breaths, and      tell your partner if you're uneasy.
  2. Communicate with your partner. Contrary to what the movies would have us believe, sex is very much      a trial-and-error process. Anyone who expects every moment of it to be      smooth and suave is in for a world of embarrassment.
  3. Have sex if      and when you’re ready.This includes sexual      touching, doing so before both people are ready can do unfixable damage to      the relationship and your mental health on sex for many years to come.      Make sure you know How to Have Safe Sex before you start.


Melvin and Dillish in hot kissing and groping session BBA

by Happenings

The singletons of The Chase are still sticking to their group sleeping arrangements and from the looks of things they are having a blast bumping beds with one another.
As the Chasemates prepared to go to sleep in the middle of the night, Melvin jumped on top of Dillish and planted playful kisses on her neck and made loud kissing noises. The naughty Namibian did not mind of course. After all there is no bigger flirt in the Big Brother House than Dillish. The Namibian has even said so herself.
But the kisses planted by Melvin on Dillish today were just in jest as the two clearly like to have good clean fun together. But what do you think; could all of the playfulness between these Ruby buddies eventually lead into something more or are they destined to remain as platonic friends?

The brutal killing of Delsu student, Ify Gabriel Nwainokpor & friend

On Sunday 21st July 2013, Ify Gabriel Nwainokpor and his friend Kasim were attacked and beaten to death by a mob at the Ajara area of Badagry on the ground that their faces looked strange in the neighborhood, this is according to the people who posted the video of their lynching on Youtube.

They claim that the Nigerian Police (Badagry division) watched as these men were hacked to death before their prime. They are crying out to the world for justice and brought the barbaric incident to the attention of the media. Another lynching? This is unbelievable.

I would not advise it but if you have the heart to watch, then find the mob video HERE...and find a comprehensive report of the sad incident from Punch after the cut... reports:
Policemen attached to the Badagry Police Division, Lagos State, and some hoodlums have been accused of killing a 25-year-old undergraduate of Delta State University, Ifechukwude Nwainokpor, and his friend, identified simply as Kazeem.
An eight-minute video clip of the gruesome killing, which was made available to PUNCH Metro, showed the two victims handcuffed together. They were covered in their own blood and beaten to death with sticks. Tyres were also put round their necks.
An irate mob could be seen in the video, shouting, “die, die, burn them, burn them.”
At some points in the video, a policeman was seen interviewing the boys. He asked who sent them (victims) to rob the area, an accusation they denied. One of the hoodlums, holding a sharp object attempted to cut off the private part of one of the victims.
Nwainokpor could be seen pleading with the hoodlums and policemen to spare his life, saying he could identify himself if given a chance. His plea, however, fell on deaf ears.
Our correspondent, who visited the family of Nwainokpor  on Tuesday, learnt that the lynching took place around 3pm on July 21, 2013 in Ajara area of Badagry, a community not far from Nwainokpor’s family home.
His father, Samuel, told PUNCH Metro that his son was arrested while passing through a street in the area  but a misunderstanding later ensued and the hoodlums pounced on  him  and Kazeem.
He added that  Nwainokpor, who was nicknamed Ify, was a final year student of Geology and Mining.
He said, “On that particular day, I was in Ghana when I received a telephone call  that I should come immediately. My wife was in Delta State taking care of her mother.
“When I arrived two days later, my relatives and the caretaker of my house told me that my son was killed in the Ajara area along with his friend. I was devastated.
“I got my son a temporary job with a Customs licensed agent since their lecturers were on strike.  He worked everyday except on Sundays when he visited his friends. On that day, he went to see Kazeem and they were strolling around Ajara.”
Samuel said because there had been a robbery in Ajara four days earlier, some of the residents were on the lookout for strange faces.
He added that when the youth  saw two unknown young men, they  accosted them and an argument ensued.
He said the youth called the head of the vigilante group in the area, one Asiribo.
He said, “Asiribo came to the scene with a locally-made pistol and handcuffs. He handcuffed my son and his friend before asking them questions.
“Later, it was decided that the boys be taken to the Baale, Agano Oniyon of Agamade Ajara. But as they were going, Asiribo, while trying to return his gun into its pouch, mistakenly shot himself in the stomach and died.”
Samuel said Asiribo’s death infuriated the youth, who  blamed the boys for  his  death.
“The mob picked up sticks and beat them to death. Policemen were there,” he  said.
Holding back tears, the retired immigration officer added  that the police treated the matter as a robbery case. Beating  his chest,  Samuel said there was no way his son would have been involved in  armed robbery.
He said, “I have been living in Badagry since 1982. I have only two children and Ifechukwude  is the  first. Ironically, he was born in that same area where he was killed.
“I have lived in this area without any trouble and  the residents  can tell you that my sons are good  boys.”
Nwainokpor’s boss, Aloysius Onyenibedi, described him as an honest and hardworking person.
“I trusted him to the extent that I used to keep a lot of money with him. He was good to my children and was honest,” he said.
The Nwainokpor family berated the Divisional Police Officer, Badagry Police Station,  Dankoli Mohammed, for the manner he treated the case.
Samuel said when he approached the DPO, he was told that his son was killed at midnight for armed robbery.
He said, “When the policemen came to take the corpses, guns were planted on them. Policemen at the station told the DPO that they were robbers. Their corpses were taken along with that Asiribo to Badagry General Hospital’s mortuary.
“The following morning, the DPO released Asiribo’s corpse for burial without investigation. My relatives went to the station and after showing the DPO the video, the matter was transferred to the Area K Command.
“At Present, Asiribo’s son has fled, while the DPO has been unable to identify the policemen who were present at the scene when my son  and his friend were killed.”
PUNCH Metro however learnt that through the video, some people had arrested one of the perpetrators. The suspect had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department,  Panti, Yaba.
The spokesperson for the state police command, Ngozi Braide, said, “The incident is quite pathetic. Even if they were armed robbers, no one has the right to take the life of another. Why then do we have the police and the judiciary? The Nigerian police as well as the law condemn mob action and jungle justice. The commissioner of police has set up a high- powered investigation body to investigate the matter.”

Man Jumps Fence To Have Sex With Mad Woman In Lagos Asylum

Officials of the Lagos State Government have arrested a 21-year old man, Lateef Sulaiman, for allegedly scaling a 14-feet fence to gain entrance into the Lagos State Rehabilitation and Training Centre, Majidun area of Ikorodu, Lagos, southwest Nigeria, to have sex with a mad woman.

Sulaiman was said to have jumped into the female dormitory around 9.30 p.m. recently and had sex with a deranged woman before he was arrested and handed over to the taskforce at Alausa.

In his confessional statement at the taskforce headquarters, Sulaiman allegedly said he had had sex with a mad woman at the rehabilitation centre on five occasions before his arrest, saying that he knew where the female dormitory was because he had gone to the centre in the past to seek employment and had thoroughly studied the environment.

He was arraigned at the Special Offences Court, Alausa in Ikeja for his alleged offence

Sulaiman was slammed with a four-count charge. In the first count charge, he was said to have scaled the 14-feet fence of the rehabilitation home and slept with a  mentally ill inmate and thus committed an offence punishable under the laws of Lagos State.

Having pleaded not guilty, he was granted bail in the sum of N50, 000 with two sureties who must be civil servants and present evidence of tax payment for five years.

Sulaiman could not meet the bail conditions and was remanded at the Badagry Prison.

Special Adviser to the Governor on Youth and Social Development, Dr. Dolapo Badru, lamented that there is a lot of satanic rituals going on in the society, wondering what could have made a young man scale the fence to sleep with a mad woman.

“It is this same satanic ritual that makes a herbalist to tell a man to bring the private part of somebody to be used for rituals without killing the person in order to get rich,” he said.

He said it is senseless and baseless for a man to want to sleep with a mad woman, thinking that his fortune in life would change for the better.

According to him, the only thing such a bizarre act could do to a man was to make him contract deadly diseases.

“This act is simply part of the activities of ritualists and a way to get money in a quick means. The case is in court,” he said.

Hon.Chidi Llyod Unable To Walk As He Appears In Court for The First Time(Photos


He appeared in court yesterday aided by his supporters as he could not walk on his own. Some weeks back, he was agile and hit a fellow law maker with a metal mace.

He was charged with attempted murder.

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